Zimbali Retreats? http://www.zimbaliretreats.com/ that place is heaven and the food is farm to table --- just enough to do up there - mostly relax and eat lol
and if you stay at Treehouse, Charela or Bar B Barn (on the beach) you will not be hassled (great security) and eat some of the best food and just get to watch the antics on the beach from your chair - Treehouse has Teddy cooking, BBB you can sit at the bar and eat (always meet interesting people) and Charela's dinner specials (3 courses usually) are fresh and different (cultural show there too)
please don't put yourself some where so quiet that it emphasizes your loss
sorry for your loss and prayers for your comfort