Gerry G's TRAIL OF ASHES TOUR Final Chapter -- The Mighty Californian's return

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Daaayum. Who's the bartender with the dirty banana??

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Originally Posted by kaycee

I asked myself the same thing!:):o

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Did you girls not read my post???!! Kevin....lol......

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Originally Posted by gerryg123

The ride back to the airport found me by myself again, as no other Clives pick-up were scheduled for this time (most flights home leave in the morning, but I've found the afternoon departures better even though I don't get back to L.A. until midnight which is really 3 a.m. Negril time).

For some reason, I wanted to be alone. I wasn't in the mood for a where-you-from-where-you-stay session with other travelers. I did have an incredible stay in Negril, but like I've been saying, I was not sure when, or IF, I would be back.

These were thoughts going in, hence the title of the report. In the back of my mind, I was leaning against coming back. That's why I booked the VIP Mobay service and -- in an utterly rare move for me -- had upgraded to first class for the trip home.

Was this a goodbye gift to myself?

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ahhhh, gerryg......you are giving me a heavy heart here...

Gerry is often misunderstood, but the reality is quite simple. Gerry is a big teddy bear and shows great appreciation to his friends. Guaranteed if you have time to spend with the Mighty Californian you will surely have a great time. Gerry, I look forward to hanging out with you again in Negril. Soon come......

A few more pics (top to bottom):

1, Nice day at beach

2, Brasi and son at Seastar pool

3, Cigarette man

4, Xtabi

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Gerry, I really like the way you share photos - just a few at a time and identifying them at the beginning of the post.

You can buy friends for a couple hours but maybe can't buy friendship...

Seems your boardie/tourist friends love you lots so come back and party with them!

Lola is right-Lots of folks on this board seem to really like you..I met you once and we had some good laughs and conversation-your a very generous person and sorry if some may have taken advantage-but screw them...come back and party with your board friends-and why dont you spread your wings a bit and get out and see other parts of Jam...

I was glad I made arrangements with VIP Mobay. A rep met me and guided me through security, and with a long line behind me that saved about an hour. There is a free open bar (for some reason, I don't like to drink before getting on a plane), complimentary appetizers including sushi, and free wifi with lots of comfy chairs and tables to set yourself up.

There is even a shower. I didn't use it but I stole all the towels (just kiddin').

Lol I didn't use it but I stole all the towels! Love it.

Here are some pics ....

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Booby Cay island


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Here's a good benefit if you know how to spearfish


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Pretty girl ....


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Best thing about Negril is the beautiful blue ocean

thanx for the great pics, soon come

EPILOGUE:

Well, it's been a bit more than two weeks since my return, and I have to admit I do miss Negril.

When I go to sleep at night, all my dreams are of Jamaica. I just can't shake the place. I have many passions in my real life -- my work is incredibly rewarding, the kind of job millions of Americans would LOVE to have; my two daughters are the greatest thing in my world, and I am ultra dedicated to them; and among other things, the sub sandwiches in Los Angeles are MUCH better than Negril -- but still my heart goes back to that sleeply little town against the Cliffs in the Caribbean.

I can not shake Jamaica. Like a great lover, she can hurt me, but she can't push me away forever.

I will back. Soon.

Aww Gerry as if the outcome would be any different.

gerryg123, love to read about your excursions in negril....party like a rock star, my friend....hope to party with you on the island one day...

I'm smiling

we knew you'd be back!!

So glad you will be back! I want to meet you one day, I hope. And I'm buying!

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Originally Posted by Lady Jane

I want to meet you one day, I hope. And I'm buying!

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In that case, why wait? Come to L.A. .... lol

gerryg. since this is the last chapter... what's the name of the new book?

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Originally Posted by Flipadelphia26

gerryg. since this is the last chapter... what's the name of the new book?

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Has "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" been used yet?

How about Gerry G's "Life on a Scooter: Tales of Negril"

I'm only buying it if the title is "GerryG Uncensored"

Goodbye Negril. Until we meet again ....

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gerry, you wear your feelings openly . . . . in jamaica, as you know, sometimes, we, kindhearted souls, get chewed up and spit out real fast . . . that does not mean we don't go back . . . there is something very infectious about that "jamaican vibe" that i have not been able to find anywhere else . . .

and, so it goes, we go back for more . . .

looking forward to more of your adventures!!!

After 40 years in Jamaica being as kindhearted as I can be I have never been "chewed up and spit out" In fact just the opposite.

However, I do spend most of my time in the hills and not Negril.

I'm sure Accompong will tell you the same thing.

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Originally Posted by captaind

After 40 years in Jamaica being as kindhearted as I can be I have never been "chewed up and spit out" In fact just the opposite.

However, I do spend most of my time in the hills and not Negril.

I'm sure Accompong will tell you the same thing.

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Me either...but I only have 6 years full time here :) ....and I know Rob would say the same thing...he says it's all how you flex!
GG...I hope you come back because of the memories & vibes that you do love & maybe find a way to see things with a different or new perspective that won't cause your feelings to be hurt.

You know you'll be back - Negril is in your heart and soul - it may take time, but I doubt you can stay away :)

Gerry will be back...not sure when but before 2013 is over..
and yeah jam .can do a number on you when you as a foreigner are trying to a make a go of it..
Yes, if you come from certain social classes,have long-standing ties and or have certain type of jobs then yes, it will always be easier for you-..,,Some of us dont have theses connections or hook-ups....

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Originally Posted by suzengrace

Gerry will be back...not sure when but before 2013 is over..
and yeah jam .can do a number on you when you as a foreigner are trying to a make a go of it..
Yes, if you come from certain social classes,have long-standing ties and or have certain type of jobs then yes, it will always be easier for you-..,,Some of us dont have theses connections or hook-ups....

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Very well said suzengrace!

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Originally Posted by suzengrace

Yes, if you come from certain social classes,have long-standing ties and or have certain type of jobs then yes, it will always be easier for you-..,,Some of us dont have theses connections or hook-ups....

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Based solely on my own experience, I DISagree. I see it more like the sensitivity of a partnered dance. You can't really play full out with someone unless you are sensitive to their wants, needs, habits and desires, as well as your own.

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Originally Posted by Lola

Based solely on my own experience, I DISagree. I see it more like the sensitivity of a partnered dance. You can't really play full out with someone unless you are sensitive to their wants, needs, habits and desires, as well as your own.

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WOW WOW...very nicely said, Lola....eyes wide open!!

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Originally Posted by Lola

Based solely on my own experience, I DISagree. I see it more like the sensitivity of a partnered dance. You can't really play full out with someone unless you are sensitive to their wants, needs, habits and desires, as well as your own.

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Lola,

Thank you for explaining what I mean by "how you flex" better than I ever could. And I also could not disagree with suzengrace more.

All visitors to Jamaica arrive with the same "social class" - that of a visitor to Jamaica. Who you are or what you do back home is unknown on the island (unless of course you are Prince Harry or someone like that) - so we all start out on an equal social status - that of a visitor to the island of Jamaica.

Ties to any community come from what you so perfectly describe as a partnered dance. And these ties can only become long-standing ties if you are sensitive to the real wants, needs and desires - not just a superficial (and generic) handshake or fist bump. And this can only happen if you are sensitive day after day and year after year. That is how long-standing ties are developed, it takes years living here daily.

As for jobs, your job back home is of no real concern to anyone who lives here. Although most everyone will make mention of what they do back home, when it starts to sound like a bragging right, well then, this is what I would consider not "flexing right".

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Originally Posted by Rob

Lola,

All visitors to Jamaica arrive with the same "social class" - that of a visitor to Jamaica. Who you are or what you do back home is unknown on the island (unless of course you are Prince Harry or someone like that) - so we all start out on an equal social status - that of a visitor to the island of Jamaica.

Ties to any community come from what you so perfectly describe as a partnered dance. And these ties can only become long-standing ties if you are sensitive to the real wants, needs and desires - not just a superficial (and generic) handshake or fist bump. And this can only happen if you are sensitive day after day and year after year. That is how long-standing ties are developed, it takes years living here daily.

As for jobs, your job back home is of no real concern to anyone who lives here. Although most everyone will make mention of what they do back home, when it starts to sound like a bragging right, well then, this is what I would consider not "flexing right".

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Well said Rob and Lola

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Originally Posted by captaind

Well said Rob and Lola

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word!

I also agree with Lola's view..very true...but will say it is different when you have family ties to the island in regards to social class as well as your job -) and am not talking about what you do back in states ..but what one does for income on the island-Of course you dont go around bragging, but will get a different level of respect depending on what you do,own or who you hang with.. But it is like a partnered dance---excellent description Lola..

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Originally Posted by suzengrace

I also agree with Lola's view..very true...but will say it is different when you have family ties to the island in regards to social class as well as your job -) and am not talking about what you do back in states ..but what one does for income on the island-Of course you dont go around bragging, but will get a different level of respect depending on what you do,own or who you hang with.. But it is like a partnered dance---excellent description Lola..

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suzengrace,

Thanks for clearing that up. I think Lola and I disagreed with your comments because we thought you were referring to Gerry's situation. For Gerry and the advice being provided to him by those trying to help him, I suppose you must have been unaware that Gerry does not have family on the island. He also does not work on the island or have a job on the island. So Lola and I were not exactly sure how your advice applied to his situation, or the situation of virtually all the other visitors to the island that have been following this thread.

Thank you again for clearing up your comments.

Gerry
I have family and loved ones since the 8os. I had a house up in the hils of ja. Anytime you want to be around some serious fun loving jamaicans,let me know! Negril is a tourist play pen. You really need to visit some places not far from there that will really blow your skirt up! or pants...lol
Be around some people that really know the runnings.

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Originally Posted by Fun in the sun

Gerry
I have family and loved ones since the 8os. I had a house up in the hils of ja. Anytime you want to be around some serious fun loving jamaicans,let me know! Negril is a tourist play pen. You really need to visit some places not far from there that will really blow your skirt up! or pants...lol
Be around some people that really know the runnings.

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Same here Gerry. My offer to introduce you to my family stands.

That's so nice. Really warms my heart. I would love to visit ....

Meantime, here is a bonus video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vudgx...ature=youtu.be

Here are some more pics:

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Pretty dresses blowin' in wind


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Lembert of Love Bus

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I visited Out of Town nearly every day


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Surf is up in Negril, Jamaica


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Love seeing goats by roadside

Great thread gerryg, and thank you for all of your help :) Much appreciated. You are a great person.