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Please don't look down on our parenting, but how strict are the local bars with serving drinks. We will be going to Negril with 17.5 and 18 year old boys and wondering if they will be served or have problems getting a drink. We are staying at Treehouse and really don't care if the boys have a little to drink walking the beach.
I think you are very prudent and real. I do think scant information … really? Young men having a few drinks or other or none. I think they will find a way if they are so inclined.
I myself am not feeling good about it … nothing like competent adult supervision 19 plus.
Legal age is 18 , so not really a problem !
They can join the service and die for their country at 18 and vote for a president. I don't have a problem with them having a drink at the same age.
I stand corrected … 18 is the age. If they want to hang close, I'll buy the 6 or 12 pack. Mother of 24 year old who has gone the distance and sure does not want to revisit that age in a foreign country. I spoke my piece and peace to all … 2018 just about here.
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They'll be fine. Give them unrealistically low drink limits like 1 or 2. They'll stretch it and have 4 or 5. Which is where you really want them to stop. Where I come from if they are 17.5 and 18, they've been drinking for awhile now already. Watch them the first couple days, give them a chance to earn your trust by responding to the responsibility you have given them.
They will be served at most places along the beach or in the west end.but you know your kids best. I have one who is good with a couple of beers on the beach in the daytime playing a little football or volleyball, I have another who could disappear if given enough rope. Parented the same, two different boys. Give them parameters you can live with, take them out with you at night. Long hot days make for early nights, enjoy and have fun. The treehouse is a great safe property! Enjoy.
When they are walking the beach, don't let them have any money.
Mjc...as already said...the legal drinking age is 18 in Jamaica.
Your young men will not need to carry ID or have any issues unless they go into a major night club or major event where ID is required...but...only one might have a problem getting in as he's technically under age.
Irine- I'm well aware of this. They spend many weeks alone at our cabin with "friends." Can't complain it is always spotless when we get up there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Irine
Maybe I can have them touch base with you in another 1.5 years when they go to school by you. They are debating Duluth or Superior. Superior is cheaper but Duluth is nicer.
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These 2 boys are really good. Been best friends since little and now friend lives with us (older one) and has always looked out for our son. I think I trusted him more then our son. Now my daughter at that age I won't let her out of my sight.
They will have a blast, and it's so fun to have them down with you. We took our three kids down 5 years ago and our two boys, 21 and 25 are meeting us in Treasure Beach for our last week in March. They have seen Negril, now they can see some more of the island! Enjoy, cheers!Quote:
Originally Posted by mjc12771
On a serious note, my children, and all of my friends children got a free pass with us while they were growing up and going through that "invincible" period. No matter where they were or who they were with, or what time it was, all they had to do is call, we'd pick them up no questions asked. They could go home or stay with us, the only rule is call home and let mom and dad know you were safe. So when the time comes, Duluth or Superior, I'll be happy to meet them and offer them the same service. We have a duty to keep these young kids alive during the first years of their coming of age. Sounds to me as though they already deeply respect your opinion and have respect for the responsibility you have given them. As an aside, Jamaican bar tenders won't serve them if they think they have had enough, they are quite perceptive. i think you've done all the groundwork already and you'll have a great time!
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Kinda funny ... might get carded when attempting to buy alcohol ... But will have herb practically given to them ... Only in Jamaica
I'm sure they already drink at that age. Best you know and all honest about it, they'll be fine, just make sure they stay away from the Rum.
Let’s face it alcohol is nasty. In addition to being a known carcinogen and neurotoxin, it is by any credible definition, an addictive and very powerful psychoactive drug. Yet it’s glorified, advertised and promoted while pot is vilified. Not sure where I’m going with this. It really strikes me as “odd”. Just saying.Quote:
Originally Posted by JahCruiser