Nobody on this board ever says it but, if you want seclusion on the cliffs with plenty of good food within a short walk go to the Rockhouse. It's on the high end but, their 2 restaurants, DeBar across the street, 3 Dives maybe 150 yards down the road, Sips & Bites right next store and short taxi rides to LTU, Tensing Pen, Caio Jamaica, Xtabi or Ivan's make this the best spot.
My sympathy for your loss, hopefully your trip is one of healing and remembrance. Time does heal all wounds and hopefully your tears will be tears of happiness as you remember all of the good times that you shared.