Do's and donts

[Kathy]

don't obsess and/or overplan.

we had friends join us and were a little nervous as to how it would go. once they hit the beach with us, they got it. it all fell into place on its own.

[tahrheel]

We traveled to Negril with friends a few years ago. Everyone was laid back and agreeable to the point where we could not make plans.
Ex: Q."Where do you want to eat?"
A. "I don't care, wherever you want to go."
So. we came up with, "Captain for a day". Each day a different person was Captain and made the decisions on food, sightseeing and entertainment. everyone could make suggestions to the Captain, but the captain decided.
It worked out well for us; everyone got to do what they particularly wanted to do and we all had a good time.