I am very sorry for your loss. I recently lost my own father and simpathize. Despite not knowing or having met him, he sure seems like a guy I would have enjoyed meeting and spending some time with. I remember his letter to Jimmy and based on my own experience understood his point of view.

"Bar fight"...........meet my buddy Nick......Is there a PROBLEM HERE?

As others have said....bring friends and family to Negril....it's never too late to experience what drew him there.