Dana1,
We have not been together for 10-12 years, another false assumption on your part. And if you notice, I used the word "We". I also just used the word "I" because I WROTE THIS. We didnt write this. I am me, Lisa is herself. When I speak for me or she speaks for her, we both use "I" - when we are talking about both of us, then we use the word "we".
This should not be a hard concept to grasp...