Everything is a mess :(

[booger]

maybe your friend is worried you will meet another friend if he isn't there to meet you. If you have been reading about Negril I am sure you have figured out there are lots of handsome men (and some not so) looking to be friends

That is exactly what I was thinking. Looks like he is worried that you might find some other big bamboo. You sure he just wants to be friends? I bet he's planning on showing you a good time and hoping for something in return. Than again, he could be different.

[likkle red]

that is what I was thinking Irieworld....friend doesn't want someone else meeting "his" friend. LOL

[Maryann]

I haven't read all the responses yet, but I've gone solo and really (REALLY!) enjoyed myself. It's a scary thought at first, but once you try it, it's a fun adventure. Just be safe. There are a list of things to be careful of, and from the response of CaptainD above, you've probably already received tons of good advice about guys wanting to be your boyfriend. Definitely don't walk alone after dark. I'm a wimp and usually just stay in after dark when on solo trips and get up early a.m. for a long walk on the beach. Also I wouldn't take your expensive jewelry or carry a lot of cash. You'll be fine.

[Sam I Am]

I too think Andre is worried he will be replaced. Seriously. Even if he is not looking for anything more than friendship, he is probably concerned that he may end up being the 3rd wheel once he joins the trip.

If this trip is about spending time with Andre, then by all means change your plans.
If this trip is about visiting Jamaica, then dont... time without him will show you another aspect of JA.

[Clarity]

I have to agree with the others. You should go solo. You're going to have a blast! There is nothing you have to worry about and everyone has given so much great advice already. Meet up with Rob and Lisa and go to a webcasts. You'll meet a lot of great people and You'll feel right at home. I never felt unsafe during my trip to Negril.

From what you described it like trying to change everything is a huge headache and not worth the stress and loss of money that it would cause.

Good luck with your decision! It's always best to follow your gut feeling. If you're feeling anxious and you don't want to travel to jamaica without your friend, than you may want to adjust your plans but I really do feel you'll have a wonderful time in Negril regardless.

Think of this as an adventure and remember that it's only two days going solo.

[northcoast]

I've never traveled to Jamaica anyway other than "solo" except after my son was born & then I traveled with him....always stayed in Negril, in the same place ( except the first time I stayed in Redground in 1983).....I now own property in Ja. & have lived here for 6 years. Go solo....stay in Negril, not Mobay & enjoy yourself!

[Orchid]

Don't change a thing...I have been travelling solo to Negril for years, though I now have friends and "family" there. I agree with the others, set up a driver so when you arrive in MoBay, you will be set. Your initial exit from the airport is the only thing that you may find a little intimidating...I know I did. Its a little culture shock mixed in with lots of men trying to get your attention (for lots of different reasons....) Don't get me wrong, not scary, just a really busy area.
Once you are in the car and heading down the road, relax, enjoy the ride, stop for a cocktail and enjoy the views!
A couple of days alone will give you a great opportunity to unwind. I really don't think you will feel lonely, I never have. CoCo is a nice spot, lounge and sunbath during the day, and enjoy their bar/restaurant in the evening (if you don't want to venture too far).

I am heading to Negril on my own in 3 weeks, looking forward to every minute of my "me" time!

[Orchid]

Oh yeah...I just read through all the posts.....you WILL DEFINATELY be approached by lots of men!! That is a given. You are a grown up, and I am not telling you what to do.....but from LOTS of experience, I have to say that I now keep the conversations "short and sweet". Since it is obvious that you are not looking for a companion in any way, be sure that they know that right from the get go. I love chatting with people, but I have found that this has lead to some men thinking I want more than I actually do...lolol

[likkle red]

Glad you were able to change flights and hotels to accomodate yournew dates. Enjoy your time in Negril!

[7milelover]

We all agree. There is NO reason to change anything. Being alone for 2 days in Negril.......no problem! Don't waste your time in Montego Bay---get to Negril. I have gone alone many times...nothing to fear. You will be in a calming setting. Very nice of Lisa/Bnewbie to give you her tel #. Jamaica is a very welcoming country...you will see for yourself.