Everything is a mess :(

[Clarity]

I have to agree with the others. You should go solo. You're going to have a blast! There is nothing you have to worry about and everyone has given so much great advice already. Meet up with Rob and Lisa and go to a webcasts. You'll meet a lot of great people and You'll feel right at home. I never felt unsafe during my trip to Negril.

From what you described it like trying to change everything is a huge headache and not worth the stress and loss of money that it would cause.

Good luck with your decision! It's always best to follow your gut feeling. If you're feeling anxious and you don't want to travel to jamaica without your friend, than you may want to adjust your plans but I really do feel you'll have a wonderful time in Negril regardless.

Think of this as an adventure and remember that it's only two days going solo.