Hi Saz- Met you on the pub crawl last year. I am addicted to Negril as well. After 15 years of marriage I have been able to obtain a long enough leash to go either by myself or with my buddy. My wife has different tastes in travel- so she takes trips with her friends and we travel together for family excursions. The trick is building a strong enough and trusting enough relationship that both parties are cool with the arrangement. I'm heading back this December for another solo week of chillin' in Negril.