I know you will have a great vacation wherever you choose to stay. If this was me, I would consider many different factors (in no particular order) cost, food, safety, enjoyment for a 14 year old as a first time trip and for yourself. I'm sure there are many other things to consider, however I know kids want lots of fun and excitement. You may want to have a bit of both. Some of these great places can be a little shall I say pricey, which may limit your choices. Do your research and you will choose wisely.