When we got in(Tues this week) our driver broached the subject.

So going back to the OP'S question take the Zen approach let it come to you, one caveat don't on the beach - if you,re a gourmet anyway.

One anecdote: We were at Sunbeach, since I've been reading this thread I asked the bartender if she minded if I sparked up.
"No Mon."
In a bit a tourist couple (European?) Sat down near us.
I turned to them and asked if they were bothered by my smoking.
They looked at me like I had three heads, but said, "no problem."

As far as Colorado I was there the week before Cannabis cup - one of the stores I visited was right on the edge of a neighborhood of pleasant homes, I took the time to look around and there weren't any homes for sale or any sign of any kind of urban distress.

Another funny thing, while most of the workers were in their 20's most of the clientele were boomers.