Really Accompong...you may have grown up in a time where you took responsibility for your actions..I have a feeling we are close in the age department (50's).. but it saddens me that it is more important for you to feel right and or superior than to know when to keep your pompous remarks to your self and just show compassion and respect.. because we were also raised in the era of "if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all! If you cant differentiate that this is a time where nothing but compassion for the deceased and his family is the only thing that should be shared publicly with regards to this situation, than my heart aches for you as much as it does for the deceased and his family!!!!

Peace and (maybe you need more) Guidance!