I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope this trip brings you a little peace and a lot of healing. I would recommend Tensing Pen if you really want just "you" time. Great sunsets, great food, and cool staff. If you choose to go out and about there are a couple of places within walking distance, Ahbee's, Sharks, Ras Roddy's for Ital, LTU if you want to walk up the road a bit (just past Rick's). Definitely a no gigolo zone. Wherever you stay I wish you an amazing trip.