I appreciate all these kind responses! The thing is, my sister does not want me going alone; she wants to accompany me -- with her husband. But he would want to be on the beach. So already this is turning into what THEY want to do. So OK, I figured, let's go to SATP. It's quiet, I can either get a glass-bottom or catamaran ride out to sea and drop off a biodegradable scatter urn way out at sea. But now we're talking about like $3000 for me, since I'd have to pay double for a room by myself. And then I have to spend the time with a happy couple, which is not exactly what one wants when one is dropping the cremains of one's own husband of 30 years in a place he loved. I'm 61, so I would hope I am out of the gigolo demographic and indeed older than MOST of the Negril demographic. So this is why I would want someplace quiet and not a party place. If I could satisfy my sister and brother-in-law without spending a fortune, I'd rather. Otherwise I may have to just sneak off and hope for the best....or try to get someone to come with me when I'd really rather be alone. Because this is not a vacation trip, this is a trip with a single purpose.