Will be traveling to Negril for the first time in early December. I'm a 35 year old guy and have been to many AI's with my wife over the last several years though never to Jamaica. Unfortunately she does not have any vacation left for this calender year and I need a break from my pretty grueling work schedule. What's important to me in order of importance is I want a resort / hotel that is not couple centric where I will feel like some sort of outcast, I would like a nice beach (been to the Mayan Riviera, Grand Cayman, and Southern Thailand and like soft white sand, and clear and shallow water to wade in) I would like nice authentic food. On our last trip to the Mayan Riviera we spent an inordinate amount of time off resort eating at small hole in the walls and liked the food much better than the bland food served on resort. I do enjoy nightlife and would like to stay somewhere that doesn't look of feel like a ghost town after 11pm. I have shortlisted the Grand Lido, RUI Negril and the RUI Palace. I would also be open to a non-AI but the pricing with airfare is coming up as par or a bit higher for a non-ai. I'm afraid if I book the wrong resort I'll end up with 50+ people or among groups of couples and feel really awkward.