Quote Originally Posted by Manda81 View Post

I dont want to
have a gentlemen come up to just chit chat and me being friendly converse with him where he gets the wrong idea .. I also don't want to go down with this
jaded idea that every guy that approaches me is offering paid services lol or should I have this idea at all times ? This could be a very embarassing situation
for me .. and if I ever at any point feel insulted I'm really not one to bite my tongue.
Manda - rule of thumb - the 'jaded idea' that you mentioned - my advice is run with it.