That should never happen, and if it happened to me I would be obliged to defend myself and get the guy off me. A whole lot of beach theater would then ensue.Originally Posted by HarryS
That said, I always do a little research on vacation destinations to make sure it's a place I could enjoy and somewhat prepare myself for the environment.
If you knew why she was in therapy, you'd feel like an ass, based on your comment. You usually seem like a nice enough guy, but you're way off base here, and the tone of your comment is uncalled for.
Perhaps I misread, but it sounded like she was not communicating her feelings with you, thus going to negril when she really didn't feel comfortable doing so. I didn't put it out on a public forum, you did.
It's hard to be sympathetic to the cruise ship crowd or even their shipwrecked AI cousins. Too lazy to travel seriously because they might have to encounter locals. That's the point of travel! How many do you think did any research before arriving? Prior proper planning prevents poor performance (and experiences). It also helps if you're comfortable around people of color. I've had some uncomfortable moments in Jamaica, but I've had them here in the States, too. Getting out of your comfort zone is when you have your greatest opportunities for growth!
We're all in this together and none of us is getting out alive.
And the award for the best use of alliteration goes to.... (grin)
Negril.com - For the vacation that never ends!
Well said Marblehead !!
Marblehead,
My idea of a great vacation is a cruise. I love being aboard a ship again and I am in no way a lazy traveler.
I really don't think of my time in Jamaica as a vacation. Just another visit home to see the family, check the progress on Zion Hill and visit my money <grin>
Seven days on a 100,000 ton floating first class hotel .... that's a vacation
To each his own but judge not
Cap
linston@redplate-negril.com
Harry, I empathize with you and your wife. The only “key” tourist area that gives me unbearable grief each and every time I’m there is Ocho Rios. I thought it was because I was always alone until one time when I made sure I was escorted into town. It was worse because both of us were harassed and he’s Jamaican.
After reading your post, (and I hope I’m wrong) I’m afraid not much is going to be different by way of experience (comfort) for your wife no matter how guarded you are. It’s Negril. Your wife sounds like a sweetheart who adores being with you wherever that may be. I ask respectfully, is it too late to stay somewhere else? If not, if you do the beach, get a taxi ride to Bloody Bay. The small entrance fee in exchange for undisturbed couple time will be worth it.
Every time I think I should see a therapist I just take a trip to Negril.(cheaper).
I just returned from a great cruise. We are not lazy, we just like a variety....nothing wrong with that.
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