If you knew why she was in therapy, you'd feel like an ass, based on your comment. You usually seem like a nice enough guy, but you're way off base here, and the tone of your comment is uncalled for.
Perhaps I misread, but it sounded like she was not communicating her feelings with you, thus going to negril when she really didn't feel comfortable doing so. I didn't put it out on a public forum, you did.