I understand how you feel, I know how it works, but its very hard not to get caught up with the people you meet. I have to keep remembering I am only here for a week , and they are only helping me for something in return, a ride , info, travel guide, etc. Most of us stay on the beach or cliffs and visit the country for a tour, so to meet jamaicans not in the tourist area is hard. I have talk to alot of jamaicans about how hard it is in the states, and they always say things like (you have nice clothes, or you have ways we can't). I have had the same phones calls when I came home.