First...While I obviously have first hand knowledge about the runnings of Negril.com, you are wrong in your assumption about me having the ability to moderate or delete any post...only Rob and his staff have that ability. I am
not staff!! At the moment, I'm commenting more...but I still do not have moderator status.
Second...I do know about your post being removed and I'm pretty sure Rob explained to you what happened. You got caught in the closing of a thread that was filled with complete inaccuracies and conspiracy theories. Rob was on the phone discussing it with the moderator on duty at the time and your post was made while in the process of closing the thread. Simple!
You are asking for an "open and honest dialogue", how can a thread with completely inaccurate information and conspiracy theories be open and honest and/or helpful to anyone?
Third...Not much actually gets deleted...open and honest discussions are allowed as I've already stated (excluding rumour and speculation and openly hostile comments)...but quite frankly bringing up Colin who was a friend and neighbour of ours for many years and while the loss is still fresh in our hearts...personally I don't consider this tragedy, you've stated above as being honest or accurate if you're calling it a recent event.
Fourth...Why would you mention another location? I'm going to Iceland...but why would I speak about that on Negril.com...the business name says it all!