I brought stuff for the kiddos in "shanty town" once and saw the mayhem it created. That made me question it. Then, while stopping for a roadside beer on a later trip, a little girl came running up to beg a bag juice. My driver told her that she shouldn't beg, that it wasn't good. It wasn't a "leave the man alone" type of way, but more like he was trying to teach her. I took a mental note and stopped giving hand outs to the kids on the pub crawl. I accepted that five minutes of me feeling good and patting myself on the back doesn't validate reinforcing unproductive behavior.