Hello all, due to come to Negril soon for the first time (solo female) with my child and I may have done a little TOO much research. I've scared myself half to death by first stumbling across some incidents that happened awhile ago in Negril and then doing further digging. I was ready to get on the phone and cancel the whole thing but I had several friends talk me down who have been before.

FWIW, I too am from a resort town and the crime is through the roof. Just today there were car break ins mid day at the Walmart parking lot. 2 murders last weekend. My best friend had gun shots outside of her house last night. Per capita, my town is more dangerous than Baltimore City (who had 6 murders last weekend). Frequent shootings and knife fights when the bars let out at 2 am. I'd never walk down the main drag drunk at 2 am. I have made out okay (knock on wood) because I am sensible and safe. I am aware of all of the precautions frequently given around these boards, and I'm never out late anyway.

That said, I am looking for a local guide/driver for when the several activities I have planned around Negril away from the resort. I have zero concerns about staying on property, security is said to be top notch. However, I didn't really want to be confined to the resort. I'm aware of all of the companies who provide airport transfers and large tours. I was hoping to find someone who will accompany us to dinner/activities out. This may seem extreme to some but at this point I think it'd make me feel a lot better. Unfortunately I dont think trip insurance covers canceling out of fear LOL. I'd love to hear any recommendations from anyone who "knows a guy."

A couple random questions re: safety warnings:

-Ladies, if you are traveling solo, where do you carry your cash? Everything I've said says to NOT carry a purse. But if I'm in a dress or suit? Where else? Bra? That could be awkward digging cash out of your bra at dinner at Ivan's lol.

-It has also said not to flash cell phones. Will it be okay to use it while sitting in the lounger of my resort?

Thanks again for anyone who's taken the time to read my long winded post. Even some small reassurances would be most welcome right now.