On a serious note, my children, and all of my friends children got a free pass with us while they were growing up and going through that "invincible" period. No matter where they were or who they were with, or what time it was, all they had to do is call, we'd pick them up no questions asked. They could go home or stay with us, the only rule is call home and let mom and dad know you were safe. So when the time comes, Duluth or Superior, I'll be happy to meet them and offer them the same service. We have a duty to keep these young kids alive during the first years of their coming of age. Sounds to me as though they already deeply respect your opinion and have respect for the responsibility you have given them. As an aside, Jamaican bar tenders won't serve them if they think they have had enough, they are quite perceptive. i think you've done all the groundwork already and you'll have a great time!






