SLP, thank you for adding that! I meant to and let it slip away.

NegrilIrene, I hope you can laugh at the following sentences.

We had a similar situation with a grandmother. We had all been there for hours and hours. My husband leaned over and whispered for her to go to the light. His cousin Bob was wearing a bright yellow sweater and standing with him. She opened her eyes and said "Bob is in my light". Everyone stood there for a few seconds, not quite sure what to say, and my husband, with his strange sense of humor, gave a little shove to Bob and said "Get the heck out of Grandma's light"! That is when a very kind nurse advised us that Grandma would not pass with us there. One hour after leaving, Grandma peacefully went into the light without anyone in her way. As a family, we found some humor in that situation and still ask Bob where his yellow sweater is.