I know i write long posts sometimes but, Just put yourself in somebody elses shoes before speaking, sometimes even before thinking and your question or doubts will be answered
My friend and my first trip we went to the RIU Negril AI being unfamiliar with jamaica, we hit up some bars and stuff on the beach, but a great experience was going ``In the middle of nowhere``
Met a worker at the riu named jacko to hook us up with a tour of hanover/westmoreland, brought us near his home where he woke his brother up to open his bar
Built out next to the road, infront of their house, a bar that opened when we got there... His brother woke up and got straight to work ``Yeaaaa big daddy my brother told me about you guys how you liking Jamaica``, Bam maybe an Oz or 2 on the top of the table, ``Would you guys like a cold one`` Red stripe popped open and handed to us`` and enjoyed our time at his bar offered us to try some grabba leaf for the first time and had a bunch of snacks and energy drinks for us to have, his bar was stocked, nobody else there except me my friend at this time, their kids joined around played music for us from a laptop straight into 2 big speakers on either side of this bar,As a visual maybe 4 or 5 people could cram up and inside to get a drink, patio deck out infront with a couple of chairs, as the sun was setting people were finishing off their daily runs, work, everything that normal people do everyday, working. A couple neighbors slowly started to pass by as they were getting home because they noticed unusual action so early around there. We started heading out back around when the sun started going down behind the mountains and this is when most working people end up getting home eating supper and hitting their bars to relax, smoke and vibe. If it weren`t for us, Jackos brother would`ve kept sleeping in and opening it up later when more regular action comes. We got great service, for something that was closed upon arrival, had a great time and was happy to pass by there, talking to the brother he used to work at the RIU too but it didn`t work out over there and so he made his bar for the neighbors and people of the village around.
After all this Did i feel taken advantage of, no because a bar that normally starts to open and get BUMPIN a bit later on in the evening opened early for us. We got served a nice drink, experienced memorable moments, while relaxing and enjoying a vacation, Just like many other bars
I dont question others because its not in my right to question or judge any other individual except myself and my own actions. If i don`t like something, i dont do it. If you feel pressured to do things you don`t want or like (IE Purchase a drink from x bar or restaurant) the only person you should be questioning and asking for help on, is yourself. Because im sure nobody forces or forced you to buy drinks.
Don`t take this as a fight, take this as a chance to open your mind body and soul up and free yourself and your mind of all the stress that seems to build up inside you. When you start to love yourself you start to stop hating others.
Originally Posted by saeyedoc
