Quote Originally Posted by anokagirl View Post
Geez I feel bad that I even have to ask these questions, and sincerely want to assure you I have only the best of intentions. I am NOT trying to stir the pot.

We have our second trip to Negril planned for January and are my brother in law and new sister in law are joining us. As background, my husband and I - along with his brother - are about as mid-western folks as you can get - right down to being blond hair blue eye palefaces. My husband and I had our best vacation ever in Negril and want to share this with family. My new sister in law - who I absolutely adore (and the best thing that has happened to our family in years) is originally from Liberia. She is a beautiful dark skinned woman, educated, fluent in several languages and well traveled - just has never been to Jamaica or other Caribbean islands. Should we have any concerns about how she may be treated during our visit by others? I want to say no - based on my experience with all of the warm people we met - but wanted to check in with others to get a sense of what we might encounter. What is triggering my concerns is a recent incident here in Minnesota where my sister in law was treated poorly. Sadly this is all new to me and I did what I could to turn the situation around but we were both feeling bad. We want to prep ourselves to ensure we have the best time possible -- which might mean avoiding some venues, etc. For what it's worth - we are staying at CCLP (LOVED it!!) and have several day trips planned with a private driver.

Appreciate your insights!!
First, let me say, "Jamaica ain't no Minnesota" (not that there is anything wrong with Minnesota). You will find Jamaicans to be receptive and generally tolerant to anyone who has money and pays their bills.
I live out on the island much of the time (up to 6 months a year) when I am in Jamaica and I almost never experience anything disagreeable except when I don't want to pay the price for whatever is offered to me at a price I feel is too high.
Once that has been resolved through some give and take, all is "Irie" again.

We all worry a little too much about the way our friends and relatives will be treated on their visits but soon realize they get treated just like you do.

Peace and Guidance