Thank you for acknowledging my point of view, bnewb. My perspective is a collection of this horribly written article, my personal experiences in Jamaica, my personal experiences in life (and sex), and my personal travel philosophy. I'm not sorry if I offended anyone. I have my own point of view, as do you all. What really makes me angry is that people no longer feel that they need to own their choices. Our lives are a series of choices. Sometimes things happen out of our own control... but I challenge you to think of something bad that happened to you, no matter how small... and I wonder, what could you have done to prevent this event from happening- what choice did you make to end you up in that bad situation? Can anyone truly say that they had no part in the event?