god man, you said it, they are nothing alike at all. they close at 1 or 2 first of all in L.A. and there is no where near the pretension, nor the lame music.
I don't think you overreacted at all, I think you were well within your bounds especially if your friend there knew you were her man, that was disrespect and you were right to stand up. years ago that would never have flown and it shouldn't now.





