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    The overdose of caffeine was wearing me down physically and I wanted to take a nap but decided instead to sit with Gus and Inga on the verandah with the hopes of learning a little more about Holland and how they managed to have so much time to spend here in Jamaica. I was impressed that Gus could even chat a bit of patwa. I was still having a hard time with it but wanted to learn.

    From the time I sat down with them and for a few more hours, it seemed like everyone was stopping by on the road or walking through the yard and pointing my direction. Gus explained that I was now famous. People thought I was some kind of crowned champion in dominoes and that two local guys had beaten me the night before. I thought about it and felt that it was a good thing because it lifted the local men’s talent level in their eyes and gave me many opportunities to engage them in conversation. I basked in the pseudo-notoriety.

    I bid my leave and joined my wife for a brief nap in the tent. She had borrowed a couple of travel books from Peter and was reading up on Jamaica and especially the areas where we would be traveling. I was very pleased at how she had embraced this journey. I gave her a big hug and closed my eyes to sleep.

    It was just a brief nap, but it was nearing dusk when I awoke. I was getting hungry. I got up and walked by the kitchen door smelling some delicious odors. My wife was cooking something with Inga for supper. It was then I learned that Gus and Inga were vegetarians. The meal was a medley of sautéed vegetables over curry rice which was delicious. I was helping wash the pots and pans when Peter came to the doorway. “How about taking a walk with me?”, he asked. “Sure.” I finished up and joined him on a hike up the trail from the house.

    We stopped at a large water tank on the side of the mountain with an incredible view of Kingston below. The normally padlocked opening to the ladder that went to the top was unlocked so Peter said to follow him to the top. The top was not solid but instead would go up and down depending on the water level in the tank. The tank was nearly full, so we were able to sit on the top rim with our feet dangling over the edge. Over the hour Peter and I reasoned with each other. We bonded in a way that provided a fast friendship that lasted decades until he moved to Australia.

    We returned to the yard to find our two farmer friends sitting and talking with Gus and Inga and my wife who was sitting on the stoop listening. I sat down next to my wife and Peter stepped past into the kitchen. “Want a drink?”. “Okay”. “One dollar each”. We smiled in unison and said, “Sure”. James Dennis, one of the farmers, walked over and gave me a stalk of ganja. He told me it was very good. Why not, I thought. “Can I give you something for it?”, I asked. Later, if you want, he said. I clumsily rolled a spliff and lit it from the small campfire burning in the yard.

    Two stiff drinks and one giant spliff later I had grown roots into the concrete stoop and unable to talk or move. James and his friend were smiling a knowing smile. Even with my wife sitting next to me, I was unable to communicate my growing desire to just lie down. Then, James Dennis said something very, very strange. “Ah, mon. Tonight, you are going to chase the rabbit.” What the hell does that mean, I thought. I just managed a nod. Eventually, I managed to whisper to my wife my need to lie down and asked her to stand up and let me put a steadying hand on her shoulders.

    Somehow it worked and she guided me to the tent. She said she was going to stay up for awhile longer and asked me if I was going to be okay. Okay? Hell. At that time, I didn’t know if I would ever be okay again or, actually, what okay really meant.

    “Sleep well, honey” as she kissed my forehead. To sleep, perchance to dream.
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    “Bill?” “Are you sleeping?” “Not now”, I mumbled as I rolled over to face my wife’s tear-filled eyes. “I can’t sleep”, she says. I knew she was having the same tugging at her that I experienced up at Peter’s place only this time it was a little more private and personal. She fell in love with this place. “You know, we really need to move on”, I said gently. “I know but I just can’t help feeling so sad”, she continued, “I know I could do so much good for these girls”. I thought, “My little Margaret Mead in Samoa”. I was so lucky to have her as my wife.

    I couldn’t go back to sleep and I could see the gently lightening of the morning sun though the tent’s roof. I could also hear muffled voices coming from Jah Mike’s verandah. It seems a growing number of voices could be heard. My wife could hear them too. We started assembling our possessions and re-packing our backpacks leaving only the tent to take down and pack as we grabbed a light and exited the tent.

    I could make out about a dozen people either standing or sitting on the verandah wall. Suddenly, Beverly came running off the verandah and hugged my wife which started them both crying. I knew they would be friends forever. I continued up to verandah and greeted the rest when I saw Jah Mike’s girlfriend approaching with coffee and some roasted breadfruit from the kitchen. My wife joined me with Beverly in tow and we enjoyed our breakfast amidst our new friends.

    I looked over at the tent where two youths were taking it down and trying to figure out how to pack it in the little bag. Smiling, I wanted to intervene but realized how important it was for them to do it by themselves for us. Jah Mike broke into my thoughts. “I think it is time to go up by the road”. I agreed and went over and completed the packing of the backpacks. Once completed, the two youths grabbed them up and carried them up to the road. Jah Mike, my wife, and I followed along with the cadre of our new friends totaling now about 20 or so. We were both feeling quite emotional and that feeling seemed to be prevalent in our group.

    We all stood talking for about an hour or so until we heard the distinctive sounds of the old country bus climbing the hill towards us. It seemed like everyone was waving for the bus to stop for us as we said our final goodbyes and made promises to return one day then entered the bus going to the back seat where we could, again, wave our final goodbyes.

    Everyone on the bus seemed to be turning towards us wondering what all the commotion was about. Up to this point in our lives, we had never been so happy yet so sad at the same time. Happy for the time here at Sealawn Coral Beach and sad to leave.

    We settled back for the long, long bus ride to Negril.
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    wonderful story
    thanks for sharing

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    👏👏👏

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bnewb View Post
    👏👏👏
    Thanks, Lisa. Please thank Rob for letting me go on and on....

    I started writing and posting this long thread on May 12th, the 36 years after the day my wife died and finished it today May 23rd, 36 years to the day of her funeral. I needed to get this all down while I had the time and could remember everything.

    Perhaps I will see you and Rob later this year if I get to Negril.
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    Thank you for sharing. I am sorry for the loss of your wife.

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    what a wonderful story, thanks for sharing

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shaggy View Post
    what a wonderful story, thanks for sharing
    Thanks Shaggy. "It wasn't me"

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    Loved loved loved your story! Thank you for writing down your memories.

    I do trip reports when I can, mostly because I can look back at them to jump start my memories..

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    On this first trip, I took a Super-8 movie camera which I still have transcribed on to a DVD which I consider personal. My wife did, however, take along a couple of small cameras which I have some pictures I can share. A couple of them are from subsequent trips when I re-traced our steps after her death. Hope you like them.
    Here is a picture my wife took of me as we left Puerto Rico on our way to Kingston, Jamaica....Hawaiian Shirt and all.
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    The Texaco Gas Station in Barbican at the foot of Jack's Hill Road.
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    Maya Lodge on Peter's Rock Road behind Foxy's
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    The road behind Peter's House on the way to the Water Storage Tank.
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    The outdoor patio at Maya Lodge with Hunter, SweetP and the cook.
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    Port Royal view from Fort Charles to the spot where the earthquake on June 7, 1692 submerged half the city.
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    Have just a couple more I might share later.
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