A number of boardies have discussed that we are keeping our extreme feelings quiet on this but I will say this.
The idea of the zero budget trip report sounded fun but not when you say things like being irritated your kids eat so much and in the same posting talk about partying all night long. That same gossip ring that you elud to works two directions, Negril is a small town and it is best to fly under the radar which you have not done.
The partying you are doing many of us have done, many of us mothers, however not with our children along for the trip and certainly not at the VERY same time complaining on a worldwide forum about funds for food and shelter.