"to understand what Rob "deals with" daily & all year long...not just for a week or 3 months of vacation time...and you found out it wasn't so simple!"
Not sure I understand exactly what you mean - but I'll take a guess: running a business, making ends meet - in other words living and working full time in Negril? Not many people do understand that - I do more to a degree because I do live here part time amongst locals and deal with the day to day of doing that - but mostly I get it from my friends who live here full time and deal with the day to day, like Rob does, so that does give me perspective.

It ain't always "paradise". A good friend, RIP, once said "the harder the reach, the sweeter the peach" - and if you want to live life on your own terms - the where and when included - there will always be challenges but the rewards will be far greater.