Kevin,

We are so very sorry to hear about Flop. That is devastating, to lose your furry family member that came into your life when you needed him the most. Nothing can fill that hole in your soul. Allow yourself to morn, be sad, mad, angry and crushed. When we thought our cat of 13 years had died, I was a mess. At times I hated everything, couldn't think straight and would cry at the drop of a hat. Be kind to yourself right now.

Becoming a permanent resident here is an offical governmental procedure. It cannot be rushed and all the necessary documentation needs to be in order. I have assisted several friends make the move so it can be done. But at this point in time, with your feelings so raw, your mind needs some time to heal so you can approach the government with the right frame of mind.

How about get the hell out of Dodge for 3 months and come down to heal? You can also use that time to find the appropriate place you want to live, a place where you feel comfortable. We can spend a week or two exploring different options and price ranges.

We are here to help you in any way possible.

Hang in there man!