Look. I know everyone vacations differently here – and I have no judgements about what people do while they are here. What goes on in Negril kind of stays in Negril, no? But you did the fear and loathing thing last time…and you claim to know “the runnings” yet based on what I’m reading you still have a lot to learn - as you should as you are a relatively new visitor here. I’ve had my time here of partying, watching the sun come up, the moon set, dancing on tables at all hours at MiYard – but that was many years ago. When I first started coming here in my 20’s I did not have the benefit of boards such as this that dispensed invaluable advice – Over the past 30 years I have made true friends that have guided me, I’ve watched and learned…and knock wood I’ve never been pick-pocketed or robbed or even threatened. But I also use my guts and instinct to remove myself from what could be dicey situations.

“truly disappointed to think someone would actually do this to me. Call me a fool, but the whole thing kind of put a chink in my faith in humanity.”

Do this to you?? What makes you a different tourist than anyone else? You put yourself in a tenuous position, setting yourself up for something like this – or worse. A chink in your faith in humanity? Look - like it or not you are not in Disneyland - you are in a desperately impoverished third world country. Not saying what happened was OK – I detest the crime that goes on here. BUT – you were the only white boy amongst a group of locals at what appeared to be a private party at a STRIP CLUB.

I’m surprised you hadn’t been pick-pocketed before and despite all warnings from this board you still carry around hundreds of dollars. Good thing you didn’t that night. You take chances late at night at dubious places so this was bound to happen sooner than later. Sorry if I’m talking like a mother hen – but maybe you should rethink your behavior at that time of night and stop trying to be something you are not. You are LUCKY all that happened was that $20 was plucked from your pocket. Those same boys could have followed you out on your “scooter” and done much more to you. Good thing you didn’t punch that kid in the head – cause that kids has brothers, cousins, uncles – could have been ugly. You may think you are tough but young thugs with guns and knives are NOT unusual in Negril. Step back – you have kids. You have nothing to prove. Cap’s advice is excellent and I’ll add to it. Jamaica is a magical place if you allow yourself the time to PAY ATTENTION. I know there are many tourists who feel they have to party their asses off, get ridiculously and stupidly drunk and stoned and feel they have something to prove by going to local spots and trying to “look cool and in the know". These kids had your number. While the one kid was apologizing, the other was taking that $20. Stay AWARE. Stay SAFE.

Have you ever watched a sunset and seen a green flash? Have you ever watched the sunrise and taken in the multitude of colors and drama that goes on in the sky during that time? Have you ever just sat and stared at the ocean for hours watching the gentle waves when all of a sudden you catch a pod of dolphins playing off in the distance? Or fish jumping through the sea?
Its amazing the life lessons you can learn by doing simple things like that.

“Anyway, I am cruising back, near Banton's, and I hear the strumming guitar and the lovely singing of someone playing an acoustic version of "Touch of Gray" by Grateful Dead. Surprise, surprise, it's Rastagirl777, who used to tour around with Grateful Dead ...... Ha ha, just kidding. I just wanted to see if you'all were still reading -- there was NO rastagirl777 sighting!”

Chances you will not have a Rastagirl sighting the entire time you are here. Our paths may cross (MAY) but I doubt we'll know or acknowledge each other, we just roll differently and with different people. At 5:00am on Saturday I was no where in your world, that’s for sure and if there was Grateful Dead playing it was not from my house. Plus, I am not some “character” to be included in yours or anyone’s “trip report” to see if they were “still reading”. Who cares if you saw me???? Please respect the fact that some of us live here, full or part time, do our day to day and have nothing of interest to offer you or your story. If you want to include someone in your writings ASK their permission FIRST.

“Frankly, I would have liked some information about why Donovan is no longer there since he's been an Xtabi fixture for like 18 years.”
Unsolicited advice #2: NEVER ask ANYONE – owner or manager or co-worker about their personal business. You don’t “know” the owner of Xtabi. You met him for one minute at a bar. Why would it even cross your mind to ask such a thing? Would you do that at home? I hope not. Its none of your business. Donovan was not your friend. He was your bartender. If he was your friend you’d know why he’s not there anymore. Seen?

Again, I’m sorry if it seems like I’m laying into you here I really don’t mean to and I hope you take this in the spirit in which it is being given. Live it, learn it – and pay attention. You have too much to lose by doing something stupid on a tropical island and risking not seeing your kids or starting law school or jeopardizing your life at home. It’s a vacation. Not a live action movie.

Please enjoy the rest of it and stay safe.