Just a side note about "sharing wisdom".
My daughter, as well I, is a devotee of Negril.
Obviously, she's younger than me and quite into partying (I'm more the walking down the beach with my sweetheart kind of tourist).

I never pressed as to exactly why, but she came away from this board feeling admonished, and like an outsider.
That is not my experience, just the opposite, but you never know how folks are going to take things.