Rum ..I've enjoyed reading your posts ..however I must disagree with the existentialist philosophy .. and for the sole reason that it ascribes to doing what is good for you ..and what you want ..The problem is ..of course..that our lives intercede with others in an almost nonabsolute manner .. sure it is great to have a path/vision ...but equally important that we can accomodate others along the way ..thus the human "condition"..
enough rambling ..carry on .. and cheers ..