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LOVE it! So exciting

Then, my friend, here is my advice to you (I believe you also said you are staying at Xtabi....good choice, that was where we stayed when I took my now husband to Negril for the first time) so you picked a great place to stay. But at some point, whether it is when you are feeling like asking a question, or even just when you are ready to celebrate the answer, take it from someone who has been married in Negril and then recently just had her one year anniversary there.....have a dinner at Ivan's at Catcha Falling Star, call ahead and make reservations and tell them of your plans or what you are celebrating and ask if they can give you the special table. You won't regret it
See what I mean by checking out our trip report here http://negril.com/forum/showthread.p...-Report*/page5
Page 5 is Day 5 (which is our anniversary)

Good luck (but it doesn't sound like you need it). Have a fantastic trip!