I hear ya, Begels! I have 4 kids too, all girls. Oy vey! The teenage years were rough. Totally understand that couples need a break from their kids. I was a single mom by the time my oldest was 6. Had I found Negril before my divorce, maybe it would have been a special place for us, but, ironically, it was because of my divorce that I ended up in Negril. My BFF thought I needed a vacation, so off we went. The only person I trusted my kids with at the time was their grandmother (my mom), but unfortunately she passed away within a couple years of my divorce, so it was either stay home or take the kids, so I always took them. We've been to Disneyland and all the state parks, etc., but if given a choice, they'd pick Negril over all the other places.