I am sorry for your loss.
I have read Clairty n HB from the time they first step on the island. It has been like a good book that I cannot put down. Its the best trip reports...I truely feel hubby man could have a nice house on the side of a cliff in JA from selling books! What a great great writer with inisght n feeling.
Time will heal the pain you feel from your loss. The love you have in your heart shall be the light that gets you thru these difficult time. It is alll about the appreciation in life...min to min , day to day, year to year...
It warms my being to know there are people out in the world like u both~
Blessings to you both ...each and everytime.