Brasi...love the sound effects, it makes me want to do a little dance, lol... and love your new pic

Angel, thanks for the kind words. Although I feel like I am already healed(I may be wrong). But the hardest part is over. I moved out when I filed on 9/2/11. So I have had a good 6 months of getting back to me and refocusing. But there is something about it being officially over that I guess I still have to marinate on, but I feel good about my decision. Mind body and spirit are all in a good place.Truthfully, the heart is cold, and I cant see anyone even getting close to it anytime soon, but that may be a good thing. I think I will enjoy living the single life for a GOOD while(at least till my son is grown,7 more years). I may remarry in my 50's or 60's, I should be ready then...maybe...lol. But to keep it real, my heart may need a little healing, right now it's like a stone, but I know to live a healthy life, it has to soften up...at least a little. So we will see. But I always seem to be alright, I'm a pretty strong cookie.