You have a trip to look forward to, so pack and go. And I will say your husband has some ISSUES. Wouldn't put up with that BS you will have people in JA that will be supportive and be able to spend time with. So enjoy! As for money you are entitled to it. He needs to get his panties out of a wad and act like a man. R-E-L-A-X-A-T-I-O-N is coming soon. Sorry about your dog. :-(