Iriesistah - Bless you. Those aerial shots pull my heart strings. I long to be the one looking out at the view...it will soon come. I look forward to your report (upon your return, of course) and I hope that you find this time away from your oppression a source of strength & renewal. The first time I ever went to Jamaica was after the loss of a relationship I thought I could not be without. The healing touch of the Island was just what I needed and I have been coming back regularly ever since.

I feel for you. I know what it is to have the man in your life be so controlling. Your role as a stay at home mom is of great value. What you do to keep the home and children would take a number of servants to replace - cook, chauffeur, nanny, etc. And nothing can replace you as MOM. Anything that is bad for you is likely to be bad for your children as well. I pray that this time in Negril refreshes you, gives you release and time to renew your spirit. Whatever road you choose - I hope that you will be able to regain your self esteem and independence. It is important not only for you but your sons, who will someday grow up.

Forgive me for being so forward but I want to add my voice to the many others who offer you support and encouragement. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.