Be safe and be well, I have found in my travels that Negril has been a place to "recharge your batteries" to soul search and introspect. Spend time in the hills on the beach in the cliffs and the caves. It is a truly beautiful island with beautiful people, I have always felt renewed when I Leave and yet saddened that I leave to return to the "grind". It is not my place to say anything, but as I have learned thru a recent divorce, love is not control,it is not guilt, marriage is a team, and it is a tremendous amount of work. Your sons will become better people by experiencing the world as travelers and humans. Be a strong mother for your children, enjoy the sand sun and all the island has to offer