Well first (((((HUGS))))) I feel for you was wondering if something was going on after you went home. Do you have any family near you? Trust me want to say so much more not nice things. Wish i could help you. Sorry your husband is an ASS yes I know he is the father of your sons but does not sound like he does much he certainly is being so disrespectful to you. is there anywhere else you can go? There must be something going on with him. I'll hush for now. I wish you the best. Wish I was your neighbor would have you over.