Thanks everyone for all your help and encouragement. You guys are amazing!! I was feeling down in the dumps earlier today, but after reading your comments I had to smile.

I've looked into all of your suggestions, the one that caught my eye the most was Villa Sur Mer... I just wrote them a letter, but then I saw the fine print about a 3 day minimum stay, so I don't think it's going to work out for us. Unfortunately it's considered high season until April 30th. This shoots it straight out of our price range. The westender looks beautiful though. Moondance cliffs also looks lovely, although more like a standard hilton hotel resort... It certainly has great reviews though. SeaGrapeVilla looks awesome, but only offer 2 bedroom suites. Blue Cave Castle is a possibility.. Although Markus didn't like it as much. he prefers rustic thatched roofs and wood over Castles. The Caves are out of our price range by about $500...I'm looking into Negril Escape, Xtabi, and Home Sweet Home now...

I could always just call Rockhouse and Tensing Pen every day for the next six weeks asking if someone cancelled their reservations. I mean, Cancellations happen right?

I'm sure it will all fall into place in the end.
Thanks guys!