Hi Sheba - first thank you for not calling out any certain property as each one has its own way of doing business and deserve the right to run it how they want. That shows real class gyal. It is a struggle for businesses to survive in many cases.

I know its frustrating and I agree people should be free to go where they want. Some properties though keep things private for other guests or may have had bad experiences with too many visitors. Tons of properties to consider though and in my experience "most" I have stayed at allow "guests" as long as they check in the office (at least the first few times). If there is a security guard then usually after a time or two of checking in they will know its cool. But some places are more strict and must have guests sign in. Other places are more informal. So for me anyway Security is #1 so I find places with that and still able to have visitors. I have always had visitors where I stay so I think the majority allow them.

Let us know if you need help on ideas where to stay and is local friendly - just let us know your basic budget and preferences and we will be glad to help you find a wonderful place. ONE LOVE sister.