I can't speak for others but I don't feel I was particularly "hard" on Sheba and I think she read a little more into my response than I said. Sometimes the way people interpet written words has to filter through the way they perceive "Reality" in Jamaica before they can properly digest the message.
If I offended anyone with what i wrote, that was not my intention. I live in and love my country; Jamaica. It took me over two decades of immersing myself in her culture before I had any inkling of the true runnings or just what her flex was.
I have just a brief comment on what you wrote, flfungal. Your signature says you stayed at Hedonism, correct? I was wondering if that is the property you were saying had the "EXCELLENT security" and that you had to signin your driver friend each day? If so, I was wondering if he had to pay to come in or if you had to purchase a Day Pass for him to enter?
I have gone to Hedonism a couple of times and I always had to purchase a Day Pass. If that is so, then your experience is quite different than what Sheba was saying she is looking for as she says she wants them to come and go as she pleases. Just curious.
Peace and Guidance





