Greetings, boardies!

Haven't been around for a while, but now I'm back with probably with one of the toughest questions for a while

I'm going back to Jamaica in November (already have the ticket) and I'm planning to merry a yardie down there on this reach. Yeah-yeah, I know there are tons of pros and cons to this decision, but lets leave this issue aside.

Right now I need your help on deciding on the location and procedure. I have 3 options: Sandals Carlyle - 6 nights + free wedding - 1480 usd, Grand Pineapple Negril - 6 nights + wedding for 400 usd - 1566 usd. Or some private setting (preferably on the beach or west end cliff) - price unknown.

Plus I would like to know if theres any paperwork details I know about? Hotels usually need 60 days to arrange it, how long does it take in reality there?