Thanks Babelew, it was very nice meeting you as well, you are a joyful lady. I have traveled quite a bit, particularly in the Caribbean. I was in the military for 10 years. I've been to 17 different islands, sailed between many of them with my ex and kids. You don't drop anchor in a secluded Caribbean bay without taking security into account. We spent thought, time and effort on good security this past trip. As Sweetness said, there was great reputation involved in the process but still things went awry. This is life. My recommendations here are things I've thought about in retrospect, I think they would have reduced the chance of an incident, not removed the chance. I believe, if you're a traveler, you understand there are risks to reap the rewards. Experience, learn, adapt... I think that's just what you said!
