So you asked about 3 Dives and Debar. They are both relatively close as they are the same family. Now 3 Dives is on the water and offers up an amazing sunset. Debar is on the morass side of the road and offer up an amazing vibe. So it really depends on what you are looking for. Both places are slow in the general sense, however if you want prepared to order you will wait regardless and that is a good thing. If it was me, Debar wins hands down as Eddie the owner has an amazing yard and the overall vibe suits my needs. He'll light a fire for you to kick back by, locals in the neighborhood seem to frequent the place, his beer is cold, and him and his brother Trevor are amazing host. But if you are flexible I would recommend the following: Go to 3 Dives and order up for sunset and take it all in. When you grow tired of the place hop in a route taxi and make your way to Debar. I would backtrack to Spyda's for a few and than hit Xtabi on the way for a few drinks and some cave action. After that it's time to shut it down at Eddie's. Or if you want to have some fun you can swing by C&D bar and have a great time listening to and singing some country with Connie before you hit Eddie's.
So cliffs notes is simple, the food is relatively close and it depends on what you are looking for. I do know that I will make this trek on my next reach and I cannot freaking wait....... Good times soon come.